Do any of these sound familiar?
We have to learn to crawl, walk, run, ride a bike, and drive a car. We have to learn how to talk, read, write, add, subtract, play sports, play music, play video games, and on and on. So why would dating and relationships be any different? What if the way you've learned is the key reason you keep having issues with women?
What if... women aren't really confusing at all? You just haven't been playing by the right set of rules, or even on the right playing field!
There are underlying rules. Just like riding a bike without handle bars, dating and entering relationships without understanding the psychology of attraction often proves disastrous.
Wanna learn the rules? Start with my free guides.
- You don't know how to ask women out without seeming creepy.
- You can spark their attraction but can never seem to keep it.
- Your long-term partner now feels more like a roommate than a lover.
- You've been left by the love of your life and don't know why.
- You don't understand why the heck women are so damned confusing!
We have to learn to crawl, walk, run, ride a bike, and drive a car. We have to learn how to talk, read, write, add, subtract, play sports, play music, play video games, and on and on. So why would dating and relationships be any different? What if the way you've learned is the key reason you keep having issues with women?
What if... women aren't really confusing at all? You just haven't been playing by the right set of rules, or even on the right playing field!
There are underlying rules. Just like riding a bike without handle bars, dating and entering relationships without understanding the psychology of attraction often proves disastrous.
Wanna learn the rules? Start with my free guides.
I believed I knew a lot about women and thought dating was pretty straight forward, coming out of a long term relationship. I, just like many other men, couldn’t understand where I was going wrong, especially when everything started so great. Time and time again, the same sequence of events would play out, and all I could do was watch women’s interest just fade over time, I couldn’t understand where I was going wrong. Jeff showed me the science behind dating and helped me understand on a deeper level where I was going wrong. I was skeptical, but as my dating game improved tremendously, I couldn’t argue with the results.
- R.M., Australia (now in a long-term relationship)
- R.M., Australia (now in a long-term relationship)
Ready to discover the reality of dating and how to master romantic relationships? To have the incredible experiences with women that you've always dreamed of? It's all out there, just in a different sense than popular culture has taught you. And the best part is you can do it all while still being a moral man.
Some of the most common issues I help men with include:
The goal is forming a lasting relationship with a woman of high value.
Some of the most common issues I help men with include:
- How to improve your overall outer attractiveness.
- More importantly, how to improve your overall inner attractiveness.
- Most importantly, how your actions affect her interest level.
- Where to find high value women and how to interact with them.
- Understanding why women often say one thing and seem to do another.
- How to deal with being stood up, ghosted, or rejected.
- How to win at online dating where so many others fail.
- How to physically escalate with ease and without being creepy.
- How to avoid the most common dating mistakes and pitfalls that 90% of men make.
The goal is forming a lasting relationship with a woman of high value.
"Better late than never." That was my first thought the first time I realized I needed to learn about relationships. The kind of things that no school or parent can teach you about. But you feel the lack of it. I took my first step with Jeff and I think that everyone that feels anxiety or hesitation on the course of his/her love life should do the same.
- E.V., Venezuela (now in a relationship)
- E.V., Venezuela (now in a relationship)
COACHING FAQ
Who are my courses for?
My courses are for growth minded men that have an overall positive outlook on life other than romantic challenges with women. Emotional and financial stability is a must, as well as a good moral compass. I don't teach "how to get laid." I teach how to win and keep the hearts of amazingly beautiful, sexy, smart, classy women. Sex is just a natural byproduct of high interest.
The most important ability for a client of mine is to be able to put their ego aside in order to learn. Ego’s are great, but they also screw us over from time to time when they morph into delusions. Always remember that going against reality causes pain. Those that do what I say, have success, plain and simple. Those that understand why the specific methods work, have the most success. Those that start but then feel like they can do it better another way… keep having the same painful results.
Why is it so expensive?
Allow me to explain why my program is actually a massive bargain.
First and foremost, the emotional toll of either perpetual loneliness or being stuck in a bad relationship is immeasurable. I’m living proof there’s no need to have your life and morale upended by romantic issues with women, once you understand how human mating (dating) really works.
Second, consider the enormous cost of a divorce. In the U.S. it averages between $15,000 and $20,000, not to mention cutting your assets in half via this soul crushing process... Add children to the mix and this scenario is tragic in every sense of the word.
Finally, the average cost of dating is $1500 per year. Why waste that hard earned money on women that either aren’t truly interested in you, or aren’t truly worthy of your time.
This isn't a days long "boot camp" or (bogus) quick fix scheme. It's a completely immersive months long shift in your romantic thinking. I guarantee, or your money back, that if you follow my instructions and can put your ego aside, you'll absolutely have long-term romantic success with the best women.
Why should I choose you as my coach?
First and foremost, thank you for having the guts to admit that you may need coaching. You’re already ahead of 90% of other men by spending time researching this, and there are some solid options out there that no doubt should help you obtain better results with women. Examples of successful coaches for men include Blaine Anderson, Emyli Lovz, Tripp Kramer and Corey Wayne.
However, only one of the above has a realistic understanding of how paramount a woman’s interest level is (Corey Wayne). Without this understanding a man will never truly be able to build and maintain her attraction. Corey, like me, was inspired by the late Thomas Hodges "Doc Love" and his book The System.
After many years of my own romantic success via Doc's teachings, I wondered as to the deeper "Why" in regards to aspects such as "challenge" and the fact that couples rarely get back together. I focus on teaching not only the “whole enchilada” of a woman's interest and what exactly makes it go up or down, but also the deeper science behind those actions. Furthermore, I include other compatibility factors such as values and interests into the total equation.
My biggest asset is experience. I’ve made the transformation from kiss-less 23 year old virgin to someone that landed long-term relationships with more than several very desirable smart, sexy women before eventually finding my forever partner that I still chase around, and vice versa, 17 years later.
Wouldn’t a woman be a better dating coach?
It would seem so, right? Why not go to the source for dating information? The key issue is the fact that attraction is a subconscious process, meaning she isn’t able to explain the deeper mechanisms and feelings behind what makes her choose, and stay with, one man over another.
Another important aspect to realize is she will never understand what it feels like to be a man, including the pressure to be able to express romantic interest, not be creepy, and somehow get through the ever present potential for rejection. As a wise person once said, “you don’t ask a fish how to catch a fish - you ask a fisherman.”
How long will it take to see results?
Results can happen within days with several of the outer strength traits as those elements are the easiest to change, i.e., clothing, accessories, and hygiene. Physique and health on the other hand can take weeks to months to see progress.
The inner strength traits are a lifelong process, but you should be able to see results within several months and with consistent work, you’ll feel noticeably higher self-esteem after 6-12 months.
With my step-by-step guide to getting a girlfriend, once you have a legitimately interested girl, it usually takes around two months to become “official” and in a relationship.
I was one of the many young twenty-somethings swiping furiously on Tinder, hoping to find my perfect match – on a dating app, of all places. I’d been on a few dates that went nowhere, and I was starting to consider just giving up on the online thing, thinking that maybe it just wasn’t for me. But fate, destiny, call it whatever you want – had other plans. My phone had been undergoing repairs for a couple days, and when I got it back, I noticed that I had a Tinder match. Oh, well, I thought – I’ll give this girl a try. Who knows, maybe I’ll strike gold.
We met at a local coffee shop a few days later, and ended up talking for nearly three hours. She was awesome – we had a lot in common, had studied the same things in school, and just seemed to click. Well, a couple days later, I decided to reach out to this guy on Reddit who had set up a subreddit dedicated to the science of dating. Jeff, who I would eventually come to think of as my own personal dating Yoda, was invaluable to me as my relationship with the girl, who is now my girlfriend, progressed. I’ve been talking to him for ten weeks now, and the advice and help he’s given me, along with a sense of camaraderie that I grew to appreciate, have helped me tremendously. Before Jeff and I started talking about the dating world, I’d never been in a relationship, and within those short two months, I’m in a relationship with a girl that I’m crazy about.
Jeff introduced me to a world I never knew existed, and has been a fantastic source of advice and wisdom on dating, and also a good friend. He didn’t have to take the time to help me, but I was willing to listen and learn, and I couldn’t be happier with the progress I’ve made as a person and a romantic partner. Without his help, I wouldn’t have achieved that, and for that he has my eternal gratitude.
- L.S., United States
We met at a local coffee shop a few days later, and ended up talking for nearly three hours. She was awesome – we had a lot in common, had studied the same things in school, and just seemed to click. Well, a couple days later, I decided to reach out to this guy on Reddit who had set up a subreddit dedicated to the science of dating. Jeff, who I would eventually come to think of as my own personal dating Yoda, was invaluable to me as my relationship with the girl, who is now my girlfriend, progressed. I’ve been talking to him for ten weeks now, and the advice and help he’s given me, along with a sense of camaraderie that I grew to appreciate, have helped me tremendously. Before Jeff and I started talking about the dating world, I’d never been in a relationship, and within those short two months, I’m in a relationship with a girl that I’m crazy about.
Jeff introduced me to a world I never knew existed, and has been a fantastic source of advice and wisdom on dating, and also a good friend. He didn’t have to take the time to help me, but I was willing to listen and learn, and I couldn’t be happier with the progress I’ve made as a person and a romantic partner. Without his help, I wouldn’t have achieved that, and for that he has my eternal gratitude.
- L.S., United States
Ready to max out your RMV (Romantic Market Value)?
My comprehensive program is separated into four sections via two main courses. You must complete the action steps in order. I'll be there for you throughout via email and at the end of each section via 45 minute video call.
LEVEL UP COURSE
5-10 HOURS (4 weeks) OUTER STRENGTH TRAITS (OST) TRAINING
15-20 HOURS (4 weeks) INNER STRENGTH TRAITS (IST) TRAINING
HIGH SCORE COURSE
Those that are still single will gain access to THE GIRLFRIEND GAME. (8 weeks dating strategy guide and support)
Those that are in a stagnant relationship will gain access to THE FACTORY RESET. (8 weeks dating strategy guide and support)
$3997 (or 4 payments of $1249)
Give yourself the gift of romantic knowledge and let's make 2024 your best year ever!
My comprehensive program is separated into four sections via two main courses. You must complete the action steps in order. I'll be there for you throughout via email and at the end of each section via 45 minute video call.
LEVEL UP COURSE
5-10 HOURS (4 weeks) OUTER STRENGTH TRAITS (OST) TRAINING
- Tailored challenges designed to increase your outer appeal for the areas of Hygiene, Style, Health, and Physique.
- Online dating profile reviewed by me and improved where necessary.
15-20 HOURS (4 weeks) INNER STRENGTH TRAITS (IST) TRAINING
- Tailored challenges designed to increase your inner appeal for the areas of Ambition, Courage, Confidence, Charisma, Composure, Status, and Self Esteem.
- Performance vs Authenticity (Fake it til you become it)
HIGH SCORE COURSE
Those that are still single will gain access to THE GIRLFRIEND GAME. (8 weeks dating strategy guide and support)
- How to ask her out
- How to text (and not to text)
- Dealing with rejection
- How to turn her on
- Checkpoints (3 week, 2 months)
- How to break up with her if needed
- Plus all the free available content including where to go for dates, etc.
Those that are in a stagnant relationship will gain access to THE FACTORY RESET. (8 weeks dating strategy guide and support)
- How to rekindle the romance
- How to text (and not to text)
- Dealing with composure issues
- How to break up with her if needed
- Plus all the free available content including where to go for dates, etc.
$3997 (or 4 payments of $1249)
Give yourself the gift of romantic knowledge and let's make 2024 your best year ever!
"You were right. She asked me on a date."
"...When I kissed her, it was much more natural. It was longer and slower, and it just felt...right. I'm not getting ahead in feelings, but I just wanted to tell you that."
- L.S., United States
"She texted me on Friday wanting to come over for dinner, and I agreed. We went out for a bit, got drinks, came home.. and basically got down to business. There was unbelievable sexual energy between us at this point and we ended up..."
"...Thanks for coaching me through this and helping me shape my technique a bit. I haven't reached "Success" yet, but I am successful, and getting better, so thank you."
- M.V., United States
"Hey Coach, just thought you may want to know that I just got friend zoned. Quality lines include "You're one of my best friends out here", "I need you in my life as a friend," and "I tried. I really did. But I don't think romance is something that I feel between us." Needless to say your advice was spot on. I just didn't realize anybody could drag things on for as long as she did without knowing how they felt."
- R.W., United States
"Thanks for the advice man! I feel like I've stumbled upon a goldmine here. Can't wait for the book. This is such unconventional advice (goes against the PC Hollywood notions of attraction), yet it completely lines up with what I have personally experienced and what I have learnt about mating behaviour in other animals."
"...Things are going really well with that Norwegian girl by the way. She popped the "can we be exclusive?" question the other day, very close to the 2 month mark. Amazing how that happens.
- G.C., South Africa"
"...When I kissed her, it was much more natural. It was longer and slower, and it just felt...right. I'm not getting ahead in feelings, but I just wanted to tell you that."
- L.S., United States
"She texted me on Friday wanting to come over for dinner, and I agreed. We went out for a bit, got drinks, came home.. and basically got down to business. There was unbelievable sexual energy between us at this point and we ended up..."
"...Thanks for coaching me through this and helping me shape my technique a bit. I haven't reached "Success" yet, but I am successful, and getting better, so thank you."
- M.V., United States
"Hey Coach, just thought you may want to know that I just got friend zoned. Quality lines include "You're one of my best friends out here", "I need you in my life as a friend," and "I tried. I really did. But I don't think romance is something that I feel between us." Needless to say your advice was spot on. I just didn't realize anybody could drag things on for as long as she did without knowing how they felt."
- R.W., United States
"Thanks for the advice man! I feel like I've stumbled upon a goldmine here. Can't wait for the book. This is such unconventional advice (goes against the PC Hollywood notions of attraction), yet it completely lines up with what I have personally experienced and what I have learnt about mating behaviour in other animals."
"...Things are going really well with that Norwegian girl by the way. She popped the "can we be exclusive?" question the other day, very close to the 2 month mark. Amazing how that happens.
- G.C., South Africa"