I often hear understandably befuddled men exclaim: Why do girls say they want a nice guy, but then keep dating and hooking up with assholes? In other words, why do women say one thing, and then do another? Women are so damned confusing! Right? No, they’re not. You just need to cut through many years of societal bull-shenanigans to get to the truth… I... love tech-no-logy! Always and forever... But damn if it continually isn’t being used irresponsibly within the confines of human nature. Back in the dark ages before the Internet, when you liked a girl your options were either... Many of my clients are understandably confused by how to gain confidence with dating. How does one gain confidence, when they don’t have it to begin with? And what the hell does “Fake it 'til you make it” look like in practice? Do you sometimes just feel… stuck? You want to get better, but you don’t know where to start, or worse have had traumatic experiences when you did try?
Meet Joe. Joe’s been dreaming about the same girl for the past 2 years. He idolizes her, and often contemplates what it’ll be like when they’re together. When certain songs come on the radio, he thinks of her. When he thinks of her, he... It's the most, wonderful time, of the year... Holiday season is upon us! County fairs, fall festivals, pumpkin patches, homecomings, haunted houses! Football starting, baseball playoffs, Thanksgiving! And for most in the western world, Christmas! But you know what else the fall is best for? Finding love... By JEff BrownMost of us have a tendency to overanalyze situations and come up with outcomes that really don’t matter to the end result. I often hear, "Why did she ghost me?" or "Why is he sending me mixed signals?" I'll tell you why... By Jeff Brown
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Reality can be a tough freakin’ concept to wrap one's head around, and I feel like a broken record saying it to the people I’m coaching at times, but the cold hard truth is the more you go against reality... By Jeff BrownI once had a girl I was pursuing say, “I’m just not looking for a relationship right now.” Fair enough. I took it for face value, just bad timing and "such is life..." kinda thing. But then several days later, I hear my co-workers talk about how she was hanging all over the local university’s star tennis import out at the club. Wait, what the what...? Just as with the animal kingdom, human females look for men that stand out. Different women have different preferences, but all gravitate towards... In my last guide I shared the essential skill of gauging a woman's interest level by observing her specific actions. If you haven't read it yet, make sure to do so, as it, along with this guide, are the two core concepts to understand why women choose and stay with one man over another. Today we're going to dig deeper into the Inner strength traits IST's that cause her interest level to go up, and lack thereof which makes her interest go down. Imagine for a moment if each woman you encountered had a readable interest gauge over her head. You know, like the classic "life bar" in video games... By jeff brownI’ve had a number of head scratching moments with women throughout the years, like when... By JEFF BROWNWelcome to the epicenter of my work on human nature. I've taken the long way around to get here, with no formal training in psychology, and only a basic understanding of human anatomy and physiology. What I'm about to share with you has come from an extensive deductive process over many years and thousands of observations of women and men... By JEFF BROWNOne of my biggest disappointments with the Star Wars Prequels, besides Jar Jar Binks, was the incredibly forced and unrealistic interactions of a love struck Anakin “gushing” over Padme throughout Attack of The Clones. Here’s a scene by scene breakdown of what would have really happened... |